If you search, you will find…

If you suspected your spouse or significant other of cheating would you search for evidence or let it play out?  Now, that’s the million dollar question!?  Think about it for a minute – what would you do?  What I know is that if you search for something, you will find it.  Just be prepared.  Why is it that we (humans) have to know it all? #thoughts

“Keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you.”

What made you suspicious? Was it questionable behavior, small changes, dishonesty, or simply your gut?  Whatever the reason, you now suspect something but what to do?

You have three choices…

  1. Give them enough rope and see if they will hang themselves.
  2. Confront them with your suspicion but be ready for some backlash and denial.
  3. Search and do your research but don’t forget… If you seek and you will find.

There are not many other choices.  If I were you, I would go with option #1. Give the person enough freedom and the truth will soon come out. It’s just a matter of time. (Always stay ahead of the game.)  It’s better to have solid evidence than face your partner with a mere suspicion. If that were the case, everyone is a suspect. HA!

On that note…

At the end of the day, go with your gut!  Don’t believe what anyone tells you. If you believe in your heart something is going on then search but if you find something be ready for what’s to come.  If you choose to stay or leave its your business and NO ONE should judge or criticize you.

My dear friend, stop asking the questions you already know the answer to. It’s your life, and you choose to live it the way you want with who you want. It’s that simple.

Sometimes it takes more courage to walk away…

Until later…to be continued.

Peace & Love xoxo


In light of recent events…

Who knew that my words would have such an impact? A couple of days ago my life was the vocal focus of some people and I got wind of it. Gossip travels at lightning speed.  After being almost electrocuted I did what I do best… I took my thoughts and wrote them on Facebook and it even inspired the quick rant [Sick and tired…].  Needless to say, it struck a nerve for some.  Feeling guilty? Must be if they are reacting defensively, wouldn’t you agree?

Words are some of the most powerful and important things I know… Language is the tool of love and the weapon of hatred.  It’s the bright red warning flag of danger – and the stone foundation of diplomacy and peace.

I hate when I hear friends say, “I’m an owner of a business and you take more time off than I do.”  Seriously!?

Listen up folks, everyone lives the life they want.  If you are an owner of a successful business and choose not to take time off, then you need to take a step back and re-organize within your structure.  It’s no ones fault that you don’t have time for vacation.  Words of advice:  When you die, your casket will not be filled with the money you were saving for a rainy day.  Enjoy your life NOW.  Have some fun and enjoy the fruits of your labor. During the process, always remember to LIVE AND LET LIVE!


Until later…

Have a fabulous weekend!

Peace & Love xox