If you suspected your spouse or significant other of cheating would you search for evidence or let it play out? Now, that’s the million dollar question!? Think about it for a minute – what would you do? What I know is that if you search for something, you will find it. Just be prepared. Why is it that we (humans) have to know it all? #thoughts
What made you suspicious? Was it questionable behavior, small changes, dishonesty, or simply your gut? Whatever the reason, you now suspect something but what to do?
You have three choices…
- Give them enough rope and see if they will hang themselves.
- Confront them with your suspicion but be ready for some backlash and denial.
- Search and do your research but don’t forget… If you seek and you will find.
There are not many other choices. If I were you, I would go with option #1. Give the person enough freedom and the truth will soon come out. It’s just a matter of time. (Always stay ahead of the game.) It’s better to have solid evidence than face your partner with a mere suspicion. If that were the case, everyone is a suspect. HA!
On that note…
At the end of the day, go with your gut! Don’t believe what anyone tells you. If you believe in your heart something is going on then search but if you find something be ready for what’s to come. If you choose to stay or leave its your business and NO ONE should judge or criticize you.
My dear friend, stop asking the questions you already know the answer to. It’s your life, and you choose to live it the way you want with who you want. It’s that simple.
Sometimes it takes more courage to walk away…
Until later…to be continued.
Peace & Love xoxo